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Volition Sector of Mind Circle

Volition Sector of Mind Circle

By Claire Wadsworth

Joshua 24:15 – “Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve… But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.”

Every day, we are faced with choices: what to think, how to feel, what to do, and, most importantly, who to follow. At the heart of these choices lies volition—our God-given ability to choose. While it is a divine gift, volition can either lead us toward God’s purposes or away from them, or in CWF terms : God-centred on the right side of the square or Self-centred on the left side.

Volition, simply put, is the capacity to will, to decide, to intend, and to act. From the beginning, God created humans in His image (Genesis 1:27), which includes the capacity to choose. This distinguishes us from the rest of creation. We are not mere automatons; we are relational beings with the power to engage with God in love, which always requires choice. However, the fall in Genesis 3 corrupted this capacity. Humanity began choosing independence from God, and the consequences were devastating. Yet in His grace, God has never removed our volitional capacity. Instead, He invites us into redemption, a restoration of our ability to choose to come back to the foot of the cross and realign ourselves with His will.

In Galatians 5:16, Paul encourages us, “Walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.” Walking implies continuous volitional action, it is not passive. The Spirit empowers, but we still must choose. The Spirit Circle is where our deepest identity in Christ is found. When our will is aligned with our new identity, as beloved children of God, our choices begin to reflect His purposes. We are no longer driven by the chaos of sin but led by the peace of Christ. This is not about perfection (Praise God for that!!), but it is about alignment and submission. Romans 12:1-2 urges us to “offer your bodies as a living sacrifice” and “be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” Such transformation requires ongoing volitional surrender. But, our volition is under constant pressure, from within and without. The enemy, the world, and our own sinful nature all seek to distort or overwhelm our capacity to choose rightly. In many cultures, people live under external coercion, whether political, familial, or spiritual. Others suffer internal bondage, such as fear, trauma, guilt, and confusion. These can make healthy volitional action seem impossible. Yet, we have a God who sees and meets us there. Jesus stood before a man at the pool of Bethesda and asked, “Do you want to be well?” (John 5:6). This question pierces through layers of helplessness. It reveals that volition, however fragile, still exists. And with Christ, even the smallest “yes” becomes powerful.

This month I encourage us all to think, “How can I steward my volition well within the framework?” It may be by :

Inviting the Holy Spirit to lead : Begin each day by inviting the Holy Spirit to guide your choices. “Lord, today, I choose You. Help me surrender my will to Yours.”

By cultivating our heart : Notice what you feel. Anger, fear, joy, sadness, these emotions are windows into your values and can either lead to or hinder godly choices.

By renewing our mind : Feed your mind with Scripture and truth. What you believe affects what you choose. Replace lies with the truth of God’s Word.

By honouring our body : Our physical circleimpacts volition. Rest, nutrition, and rhythm helps us remain spiritually and emotionally resilient. Any change is often slow, therefore celebrate small victories, such as when you forgive someone or succeed in turning off the screen to pray and in choosing kindness over revenge.

I am curious as to which area /circle you find it most difficult to steward? Ask God to help you in those areas and seek to find growth in it.

Choosing God is not a one-time decision, but rather a daily “yes” to grace, truth, obedience, and love. It is a lifelong journey of aligning our will with the will of God. Just as Joshua declared, so we too must declare: “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” (Joshua 24:15)

Let your volition not be anchored on left-sided self-effort, but in the right-sided all empowering grace of Christ. Making it not a burdensome task, but a joyful gift. I pray we all find this joy in volition this month as we “press on towards the goal.”

Volition in the CWF Framework and Counseling Practice

Volition in the CWF Framework and Counseling Practice

By Jenny Oh

According to the Christian Wholeness Framework (CWF), volition resides within the Mind Circle, alongside thought, cognition, mood, and perception. Rather than being a singular faculty, volition represents an integrative function encompassing cognitive, motivational, emotional, and temperamental processes. It reflects a complex interplay of inner dynamics that shape an individual’s capacity for self-directed action.

In the context of counseling, volition refers to a client’s intrinsic ability and willingness to make decisions and act upon them. It signifies more than mere motivation; it embodies the transition from intention to sustained action. While motivation may initiate the desire for change, volition enables that desire to be transformed into consistent, purposeful behavior. It plays a pivotal role in therapy, influencing client engagement, goal adherence, and long-term transformation.

Clients exhibiting volitional behavior often experience a heightened sense of agency—they perceive themselves as active participants in shaping their own lives. Conversely, individuals with diminished volition may be acutely aware of their goals yet feel paralyzed in their ability to pursue them. This condition can be likened to functioning with a depleted fuel tank—possessing knowledge and intent, yet lacking the emotional or psychological energy to act. Several factors within the CWF’s circles, such as physical illness or poor sleep, can reduce volitional capacity.

In clinical psychology, extreme forms of diminished volition are observed in conditions such as avolition, a core symptom of disorders like schizophrenia and major depression. This profound lack of initiative or motivation can severely hinder daily functioning. Consequently, a central goal of therapy is to support clients in cultivating their volitional strength. Therapeutic techniques may include structured goal-setting, mindfulness practices, cognitive-behavioral strategies, and the development of self-efficacy—each aiming to reignite a client’s ability to choose and act.

Theological Reflections on Volition

Theologically, volition is rooted in the doctrine of free will—the God-given capacity to discern and choose between right and wrong. According to Dr. Steven R. Cook, “Volition tends the gate of our soul, determining what enters, its level of activity once inside, and the duration of its stay.” He argues that human consciousness is not passive but is actively shaped by our volitional decisions. Even subconscious acceptance of contradictory ideas may lead to cognitive dissonance and inner fragmentation, underscoring the vital role of volitional discernment.

In Christian anthropology, volition is not autonomous but influenced by reason (whether sound or flawed), emotion, life circumstances, and external coercion. While these forces shape the will, the Christian ideal is that volition be governed by the divine perspective, where God’s truth supersedes fluctuating human desires. This theological conviction affirms that all individuals—regardless of their psychological or emotional state—retain a fundamental ability to choose. Such an understanding is especially significant in counseling contexts, where clients often feel trapped in despair or helplessness. The belief that each person is created with inherent volitional capacity offers both hope and a pathway forward.

Augustine of Hippo, one of Christianity’s foundational theologians, regarded the will as the soul’s command center. He emphasized that God intended for the will and intellect to work in harmony, akin to a hand within a glove. For Augustine, the source of all human dysfunction lies in disordered will, and healing comes through the reordering of volition in alignment with divine love and truth. Restoration, then, involves not just intellectual assent but the transformation of the will—learning to desire rightly.

Biblical Insights into Volition

A compelling biblical example of impaired volition is found in the account of the man at the Pool of Bethesda (John 5:5–8). Afflicted for 38 years, the man is asked by Jesus, “Do you want to be made well?” Instead of answering directly, he offers an explanation rooted in helplessness: “I have no one to put me into the pool… another steps down before me.” This response reflects a perceived lack of agency—a resignation to circumstances beyond his control.

Jesus’ response is telling: “Take up your bed and walk.” The act of rising, initiated by the man’s will in obedience to Christ’s command, precedes the miracle. This passage illustrates that even the smallest volitional act—rooted in faith—can trigger profound transformation. Scripture frequently affirms that incremental steps of faith, even as small as a mustard seed, can lead to significant change. This biblical insight aligns with therapeutic principles that emphasize gradual progress, resilience, and the cumulative effect of small, intentional actions. The biblical narrative reinforces a central theological claim: human beings are created with the ability to choose. Even amid suffering, uncertainty, or psychological distress, volition remains a vital faculty. It empowers individuals to persevere, to engage in transformative processes, and to align their lives with truth and purpose. In both therapeutic and theological domains, the cultivation of volition is foundational to healing, growth, and spiritual maturity.

Everyday Weather of the Heart – The Mood

Everyday Weather of the Heart – The Mood

By Karen Grace Paul

You’re sipping your morning coffee, feeling happy. The sun is out; the day feels full of promise. Then the phone buzzes—a message that stings, maybe from someone who’s been distant. Suddenly, the heart sinks. The lightness from earlier fades, and the whole perspective shifts. What just happened? That’s a mood shift.

It’s not dramatic or unusual—it’s just part of being human. Moods are like the emotional weather inside us. They come and go, often without warning. They color how we see the world, how we relate to others, and how we care for ourselves.

Mood is a sustained emotional state that lingers under the surface, unlike quick flashes of emotion that rise and fall. When moods become persistent and intense—like in depression or bipolar disorder—they may need clinical attention. But even outside of diagnosis, our everyday mood shifts are still deeply important. They tell us something. They carry meaning.

Moods change for all sorts of reasons—our biology, our thoughts, past wounds, daily stress, lack of sleep, even just hunger. But they’re not random. A mood can be a way of getting our attention. That’s why learning to listen to our moods instead of fighting or ignoring them is such a powerful step toward emotional and spiritual health.

For us as counsellors, or simply wanting to be more present with others, learning to hold space for someone else’s mood is sacred work. Holding space means creating a room—emotionally, spiritually, even physically—where someone can be real, without fear of judgment or being fixed too quickly. It’s letting them say, “I’m not okay today,” and answering not with advice, but with empathy. It’s silence when needed, presence when words fall short.

It’s not in having all the answers, but in offering safety. When someone knows they can fall apart in your presence and still be met with kindness, that’s when healing begins.

Jesus Himself modelled this so beautifully. Think of how He wept with Mary and Martha before raising Lazarus (John 11:35). He didn’t rush to solve the pain—He noticed moods. He cared about hearts, He Connected and Understood and then responded. In Psalms, we see David pour out every kind of feeling—from joy to rage to despair—and God never shames him for it. God meets us where we are.

As counsellors and caregivers, we get to do the same. Ask simple questions like, “Where are you today on a scale of 1 to 10?” and then follow that with curiosity and compassion. Help clients connect the dots—what happened before the shift? What’s the body saying? What truth or comfort might they need in this moment?

Moods aren’t the enemy. They are the messages of the inner self. They don’t always need fixing—sometimes they just need a safe place to be heard. And in that safety, little by little, hearts begin to trust again.

And that—more than any theory or technique—is the true work of a healer.

CWF Mood Sector

CWF Mood Sector

By Steffi Gerber

The Bible and Emotions

The Bible acknowledges a wide range of human emotions, including joy, sorrow, anger, and peace. For instance, Ecclesiastes 3:1–4 reminds us that there is a time for every season, emphasizing that emotions are a natural part of life.

Mood generally refers to emotions of longer duration, which settle in for a while—like a rainy season. Emotions, on the other hand, refer to a person’s immediate feelings and are more transient, like an afternoon thunderstorm (Nikles, 2010).

The Role of the Holy Spirit

In Galatians 5:22–23, the fruits of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—highlight the spiritual aspect of managing emotions.

Sometimes, I don’t feel or see the fruit of the Holy Spirit growing within me. Overpowered by strong emotions—like thunderstorms of anger or panic—I often feel ashamed and defeated afterward. How can God help me?

In my case, dealing with anxiety at night, the change—the fruit of the Holy Spirit—did not come overnight. My wailing prayers over several years brought no noticeable change. Spiritual warfare prayers did not bring change. Learning about the nature of emotions (e.g., primary and secondary emotions, recognizing and facing my anxiety, and being kind to myself (TTT method), learning about the “roundabout” etc still did not bring the peace I was longing for. Even personal counseling, where I worked on underlying beliefs and past experiences, did not help. At some point, things even worsened when menopause hit.

I had enough.

During a silent retreat, while wrestling with God, I received Deuteronomy 31:5–6:
“The Lord will deliver them to you… Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”

And I believed it. With boldness—using the Word of God—and with kindness toward myself, I began practicing this almost every night for the last two years. Whenever my nervous system was triggered (and still is, at times), I realign my thoughts with God’s truth and apply His love to myself by speaking kindly to the anxious part of me, for as long as needed.

Sometimes, our brains take a long time to unlearn and re-learn. Even when it takes time—it can learn! It’s our decision to turn our eyes toward God’s loving face and to practice bringing our wailing—however weak our trust may be—into His presence. Romans 12:2 encourages believers to be transformed by the renewing of their minds. This transformation can lead to a healthier emotional state.

Disclaimer: As a counselor, it helped me to understand the nature of panic attacks and appropriate response techniques. I was also in contact with a psychiatrist during this time in case medical support was needed. Reflection: This is my story. What is yours? What type of emotional storms or mood-season is challenging you? How about seeing it as an invitation from God to trust Him deeper. Where would this perspective lead you?

SOMA

SOMA

By Susanne Nikles

Time to think about Soma, the Greek word for Body. What is God’s purpose for the body? He gave us our incredible bodies as a gift to enjoy and be productive in the amazing world He has so generously and lovingly created for us. Romans 12:1 tells us to offer our bodies as a living sacrifice to God, which is our reasonable service. It’s only right that we would serve Him with our bodies, out of gratitude and love. And 1 Corinthians 6:15 reminds us that our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit.  So what does that look like, and how do we live that out?

The 5 S’s of the Soma in CWF serve us as a good guide. The first and last thing we meet in our day is sleep! Do we take enough sleep, knowing that it is God’s gift to reset and restore our body for the next day? “In vain you rise up early and stay up late toiling… He gives sleep to those He loves” (Ps 127:2  ).  Do we receive and care for that gift? There can also be worries on our mind that stop us from sleeping well – let’s deal with those worries. We enjoy in our marriage beginning and ending our day in communion with God, making Him the first thing we focus on  as we wake and the last thing before we rest.

The next S  we meet in our day as we wake is the Systems of the Health of the body. How is our health today? God has given us a marvellous interconnected body that requires maintainence, especially the older we get! Like a car, we need regular check ups for any area not functioning well. Our Health vehicle needs the fuel of good food and exercise to keep us chugging along! Learn to listen to your body – C & U with it, maybe doing a body scan, and see what the aches and pains might be trying to tell you. Our body is a great stethoscope to the inner world of our minds and hearts.  Modern medicine sometimes forgets this wisdom  “A merry heart does good like a medicine, but a broken spirit dries the bones” Proverbs 17:22. Bessel Van der Kolk has a book titled “The body keeps the score”.  Caring for our health often requires addressing  issues in our heart and mind circles as well.

Take a check today about what substances you are putting into your body – too much sugar, caffeine, alcohol or even illicit substances? The Jesuits encourage us to limit our focus on the substances we ingest, including rich food, so we are not distracted by our appetite. Instead they encourage us to have a meal with Jesus, enjoying His presence and love. Jesus told His disciples  “ I have food that you don’t’ know about… which is to do the will of my father” John 4:32 – 34.

S for Sports – there is so much evidence now that we need to be more intentional about moving our bodies because of our often sedentary lifestyles. God has given us so many options – the joy of walking in a His tranquil nature is a pure joy if we can get there, and better for our whole person than doing strides on a treadmill. Sports and hobbies that we enjoy and engage our whole selves are not a luxury but an investment in our long term well being, so we can serve God and others for longer. If you have an enjoyable hobby you are more likely to be a Nobel prize winner!

Finally Sexuality, not talked about so much in our Christian circles is one of God’s precious gifts to us. If we are married, let us honour and give our bodies in love to our spouse, not denying, or worse, exploiting the other for our own desires ( 1 Cor 7). If we are single, let us regard our sexuality as a jewel, for us to value and steward, being careful with what we watch and look at, and keeping ourselves pure for our loving Lord. Paul reminds us that an unmarried person has more capacity to be concerned about how he/she can please God (I Cor 7:33).

And let’s remember that a well functioning body with healthy sleep, exercise and diet really impacts not just the health of our physical circle, but our mind and heart as well. Neurologically we think better and our mood is improved. Let’s enjoy the body that God has given us, not making our physical comforts and the desires of our bodies the centre of our focus, but gratefully receiving His care and provisions for us as a sign of His love(Matthew 6:25 – 34). We can then choose to love and serve Him and others as a sign of our gratitude. What has impacted you from what you have just read? Are there any changes that God is inviting you to make in this area? If so, take a moment to write them down.

What is Soma

What is Soma?

By JP

Soma simplistically put refers to our physical body. Now we know what it is, how can we look after our soma?  

There are many different ways we can look after our physical bodies. I think the main ways that come to mind are nutrition and exercise. These are the most basic and simplest things to know and the hardest to do or maintain. We all know we should eat healthy and exercise, which will go a long way to look after our bodies. However, our busy lifestyles, lack of prioritizing, changing weather, getting sick, injuries and the money involved all contribute to the barriers of realistically maintaining a healthy life style regarding our physical bodies. 

Nowadays, with the internet and AI, there is so much information about how we can eat healthy and what that means for different people in their stage of life. The same can be said for exercise too! There’s so much information and how do you know what will work for you and how can you maintain it?

To make things easier, I asked our trusted Chatgpt for the most minimalist routine for maximum benefit and below is the summary it spat out. It won’t be anything new for most people, however I would like to highlight some possible methods.

Movement

I am not sure about your situation but a 30 minute daily walk can seem a bit long. I don’t know many people who have 30minutes to spare in one slot to for a walk. So one idea instead of doing this walk in one shot, another idea would be to break it up. Some options are 15 minutes in the morning and 15minutes in the afternoon or after dinner, or 10minutes after breakfast, lunch and dinner or even doing 20minutes in the morning and 10 minutes at night, some might prefer to do it outside or if weather is a problem, walk at the gym or on a treadmill. In that way, you could watch your favourite TV show whilst walking and that way kill 2 birds with one stone. Another idea people have is to do walking meetings if that is a viable option for you.  

Strength

Regarding this, the research does that for people over 35 years old, who do strength training, regardless if it is body weight or heavier weights, some of the benefits include helping to preserve muscle, boosting metabolism, helping with daily life functioning, burns fat and decreases chances of injury. As I turned 36 this year, I’m actually looking more into this so that when I get older, my body will be stronger and hopefully able to stay independent longer.

Food

This is the hardest one I think by far. The recommended plate of food includes: ½ vegetables, ¼ protein (ie chicken/tofu/eggs) and ¼ whole grains or starch (brown rice, oats, sweet potato). There are just so many barriers and temptations to keep eating healthy. There’s the mental aspect and your relationship with food. When it is an unhealthy relationship hinders many people from maintaining a healthy diet. I think the most important step is to have a positive relationship with food and acknowledging when ‘you are not eating healthily’ to be able to reframe it in a positive way and to get back to eating the healthy foods as soon as you can. It’s also important to remember to encourage yourself in eating health foods. You will have a better chance at maintaining a healthy diet.  

Drink/Hydrate

This is the easiest one for me at least. Make sure you fill up a drink bottle of water. Keep hydrated throughout the day with water. You can enjoy your sugary drinks and alcohol every now and then, although personally I find it easier to drink water in Asian countries because the temptation of cheap drinks in the west makes it easier to enjoy drinking sugary drinks. I recognize for some people this might be difficult for people to reduce their intake of their favourite drink that might be sugary or an alcohol drink. Again, like with food, the relationship with your favourite drink is important in moderation.

Sleep

The recommended amount hours of sleep for an adult is between 7-9 hours a night which I would say for the average person is difficult for many various reasons. Some might be young kids, others might have to work overtime, most people would stay up scrolling social media or watching Netflix/TV or some might have health issues causing them to find it difficult to sleep for that long. It’s important if this is a problem for you to make sure you take the time to address this. Sleep is a superpower in terms of health for our bodies. With a rested body we are more patient, kinder and more optimistic in addition to be more energetic.

Others

Sunlight is an important way for us to look after our bodies. I think Covid really taught me that. Sunlight helps our bodies, our minds and also helps us to sleep better at night! Other ways to help our bodies include to stretch if you can and stand more. I know of a few people investing in a standing table and they boast about how much it has helped them. Other things to consider is for those who are injured or sick to really take the time to recover and your body will thank you for it. Your physical body is important as we only get one in this life. Let’s look after it so we can love God, love others and love ourselves. Let’s honor God with our bodies (1 Corinthians 6:20).

Which one of these is the hardest/easiest for you to maintain a healthy body?   

What’s one thing you can do today to look after your soma?

How we honour God with our soma? What is soma?

Looking after our bodies which are the temple of the Holy Spirit What are some ways we can do this?

Communication

Communication

By JP

Communication is something we do every day even without thinking about it. Each day we communicate with ourselves, our family members, our work colleagues, the people we help and the people serving us whether in the supermarket or delivery person.

The way we communicate is so interesting to me. God has created so many different ways for us to communicate. We can communicate verbally, speaking fast or slow or loud or soft. We can use our non-verbal, our body language, we can tell someone is angry or upset just by looking at someone’s face or body positioning. One fascinating thing to me is we cannot NOT communicate. Even if we do not want to communicate, we show it through our body language, it could include: crossing our arms, being silent, avoiding eye contact, turning away, having earphones in, not smiling or looking approachable.

Some of the aspects I have learned about communication include: 

Clarifying and paraphrasing

A lot of times, people say things and it can be interpreted many different ways and so we need to clarify and not assume. Paraphrasing helps both parties to make sure the communication is clear and both parties are talking about the same thing. 

Open attitude and stating facts

This one I learned from the book ‘Non-violent Communication’. A parent can say ‘I see three shirts on the floor’ in a neutral tone instead of saying ‘your room is so messy’ and the teenager receiving this message can react very differently. Likewise, being curious and stating facts can help the communication seem more neutral and easier to receive.

Staying calm and using an appropriate tone

I remember a pastor mentioning people will remember our tone and calmness. When we are able to use the right tone and be calm, it can help avoid many quarrels and misunderstandings. We can use our tone to be a non-anxious presence to bring calmness along with safety and sense of security too.

Timing conversations

This refers to making conversations are done at appropriate times. Trying to do hard conversation at night time when both parties are tired is not ideal or appropriate for the best outcome. I have found that making a time when both parties are rested and ready to listen to each other helps makes communication much smoother especially when both parties are coming in with the intent to listen to each other and to see each other’s points of views. 

Validating feelings

This one is a big one in terms of helping validate people’s experience. I think in the last 5-10 years, it has become very common in terms of trying to teach this but it can still be hard to do all the time. Helping validate people’s feelings helps people feel heard, valued and important. This encourages people to share more as along as it is done respectfully and with a caring attitude. It’s not just a skill so you can get your own way

I think about the way God the father, Jesus the Son and the Holy Spirit communicate with us. He communicates with each of us in his personal way. God is not some distant God who leaves us to guess what he is saying to us (Acts 17:27). He relates to us. I think of when Adam and Eve first sinned, the first two questions God asks in verses (Genesis 2:9,11), ‘Where are you?’ and ‘Who told you that you were naked?’. God knows what we’ve done, but my interpretation of this is God wants to connect with us. In my mind, he is curious and loving in these questions, not accusing them. God lovingly reaches out to Adam and Eve relationally, asking questions. We see the heart God, Adam and Eve messed up and they wanted to hide and avoid God, God is the one who came seeking after them.

In many ways, our mission as Christians is to communicate the love of God, the gospel, the good news of the kingdom to those who haven’t heard or even those who have heard that they might see and experience the heart of God and turn back to him.  

In the bible, God the father, Jesus the Son and the Holy Spirit all communicate in many different ways and with different emotions. Sometimes God was angry with the Israelites and other times he was patiently talking with them. Other times Jesus has compassion (Matthew 15:32) and other times he communicated angrily (Matthew 21:13). The Holy Spirit communicates with people in so many different ways, sometimes it is through prayer and the bible, to Muslims in the Middle East through dreams and visions, to other people through movies and music, to others, God communicates through audible voice or other people and in some cases, the Holy Spirit talks to us directly.

What are the ways you feel easiest to hear God the father, Jesus the Son and the Holy Spirit communicating with you? What are the ways that you feel God the father, Jesus the Son and the Holy Spirit inviting you to commune with him?

Communication

Communication

By Claire Wadsworth

“My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” James 1:19

The Bible has much to say about communication, emphasizing honesty, wisdom, love and building others up. “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29

Communication is central to our lives, from the beginning God designed us for connection (Triangle). He is the ultimate communicator. He desires that we communicate with him and others (Triangle). As a Communicator, God spoke creation into existence, Genesis 1, revealed Himself through Scripture, 2 Timothy 3:16, and sent Jesus as the “Word” made flesh, John 1:1,14. Communication should be easy but actually as I work globally, communication styles vary so much, not just languages and dialects but the vocabulary we use, our body language, hand gestures are all open to miscommunication. Relationships depend on communication, healthy marriages, friendships, and church communities are built on Godly communication, Colossians 4:6. And so we go back to our role model, Jesus, and our instruction book, the Bible, and we continue to grow in our own communication skills. One thing I am learning (still growing in) is to be gentle and kinder in my communication, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”  Proverbs 15:1. To be honest and transparent in our communication “The Lord detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy.” Proverbs 12:22, but learning to do this in a gentle, loving way. Then we want to be encouragers and offer uplifting communication, “Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” Proverbs 16:24.

A personal reflection: My daughter, who is training as a Speech and Language Therapist, recently had to record a 20-minute conversation and analyse how she communicated—her words, tone, gestures, and expressions. She was surprised by what she learned. Have you ever considered doing the same? How aware are we of what we communicate—not just through words but through our presence, attitude, and actions?

The Gospel is spread through communication, sharing the Good News requires speaking, writing, and expressing God’s truth, Matthew 28:19-20. Each one of us are called to be communicators of His word and love for mankind. How do you communicate the Gospel and to whom?

Communication holds a deep holistic significance, aligning with both Spiritual and relational dimensions. Communication within the framework is about much more than just words, it is seen as a holistic practice that involves physical, mind, heart and spirit circles, always seeking to promote the truth, healing and connection in the light of God. When we search the scriptures God communicated with people in many ways, through a donkey, through writing on the wall, through dreams and visions, and being with people in conversation such as Zaccheus having tea together, sitting on the well with the Samaritan women and so many more. So today I encourage you to consider how does God normally communicate with you and how do you communicate with Him, Father, Spirit and Son.

Some thoughts to ponder:

  • How, when, where do I communicate with God? Do I have enough time communicating with God?
  • Who am I more comfortable communicating with, God the Father, Jesus the Son, or the Holy Spirit?
  • How does communication style affect others? Is there something I want to grow in, be more aware of when speaking with others?
  • What scripture passages are coming up for you as commune with Him today?

Devotional: Reflecting Christ Through Our Behaviour

Devotional: Reflecting Christ Through Our Behaviour

By John Wadsworth

Scripture: “In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” – Matthew 5:16 (NIV)

In the Living Wholeness Approach, the Physical circle represents how we engage with the world around us. It is a two-way channel—where we express our emotions and beliefs, but also where external influences can shape the deeper aspects of our being, ultimately reaching our hearts.

Reflecting on our time in China, my family and I often felt like we were living in a goldfish bowl. As foreigners in a close-knit community, we stood out—our actions were constantly observed, from how we ate to the things we bought or the way we dealt with problems. We quickly realized that every detail of our lives was visible, and our behaviour spoke volumes.

More recently, while training in India with a small team, I’ve become acutely aware of how my behaviour can be influenced by my environment. In new and challenging dynamics—or when exhaustion sets in—unhealthy habits can creep in. Sometimes, my time with the Lord is neglected as commitments pile up, or I become irritable with others. Yet, by God’s grace, the team has been gracious, loving, and supportive, showing patience and understanding. This has prompted me to ask myself, “Do my actions truly reflect my relationship with Christ?”

A Transformed Life: When we accept Christ, we become new creations (2 Corinthians 5:17). This transformation should be evident in our behaviour—how we treat others, respond to challenges, and make decisions. It’s not just about avoiding sin but actively pursuing righteousness, kindness, and integrity.

Reflecting Christ Daily: Living out our faith requires intentionality. We must be mindful of our actions, remembering that we are Christ’s ambassadors (2 Corinthians 5:20). This involves:

  • Demonstrating love and grace, even in difficult situations.
  • Serving others selflessly.
  • Speaking truth with kindness and wisdom.
  • Living with integrity, even when no one is watching.

Walking in the Spirit: The Holy Spirit empowers us to live in a way that honours God. Galatians 5:22-23 speaks of the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. As we yield to the Spirit, our behaviour becomes a natural reflection of Christ.

Yet, as humans, we will sometimes stumble, drifting toward self-centeredness. Thankfully, we can always return to Christ, acknowledge our failures, and seek His forgiveness and restoration. We are all on a journey of transformation. Let’s continue to be aware of our weaknesses, pressing on to live out our lives in the fruit of the Spirit.

Prayer: Lord, help me reflect Your love and character in all I do. Let my actions point others to You. Empower me by Your Spirit to walk in obedience and shine Your light in every aspect of my life. Amen.

Reflection: Take time today to evaluate your actions. Are they reflecting Christ to those around you? Seek His guidance in areas where you may struggle to live out your faith fully.

Letting Our Light Shine through our Behaviour

Letting Our Light Shine through our Behaviour

By JP

“In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven.” – Matthew 5:16

When I think about behaviour, I naturally think about actions—what a person is doing. But beyond the visible, behaviour is a window into the unseen: our thoughts, emotions, motivations, and beliefs. In psychology and counselling, we often explore behaviour-6 by asking questions like:

  • What is the reason behind this behaviour?
  • What need does it fulfil?
  • What does this action help someone achieve?

These questions help us move beyond surface-level observations and into deeper understanding. Why do people do what they do? And even more importantly, why do we do what we do?

The Power of Habits and Intentional Living

Lately, I’ve been reflecting on habits—how to cultivate good ones and replace unhealthy ones. Sometimes, I catch myself engaging in behaviours I know are unhelpful or even detrimental. Why do I keep doing them? Are they simply automatic? Or is there a deeper longing behind them?

Recently, I considered doing a social media fast because I realized I was spending far too much time mindlessly scrolling. A friend, however, suggested a different approach: instead of just abstaining, I should reflect—What am I seeking when I reach for my phone?

  • Is it boredom?
  • A dopamine hit?
  • A form of escape?

This simple shift in perspective changed my approach. It wasn’t just about breaking a habit but about understanding its root cause. Often, our behaviours serve as symptoms of something deeper—perhaps unmet emotional needs, stress, or even a misplaced longing for connection.

I realise not all behaviours carry moral significance. Some are simply neutral—like how we fold our clothes or how we arrange books on a shelf. These actions don’t necessarily reveal much about our character. However, other behaviours—such as how we treat others, how we react under pressure, or the choices we make in difficult situations—can reveal what is truly in our hearts.

Jesus made this clear when He said, “Out of the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks” (Luke 6:45). Our actions, words, and even habits are often an expression of what is happening internally. This is why true transformation isn’t just about behaviour modification—it’s about heart renewal.

Jesus: The Perfect Example of Purposeful Living

When we look at Jesus, we see that His behaviours were never random or impulsive. Everything He did—whether forgiving sins, healing the sick, or challenging the Pharisees—was intentional and reflected the heart of the Father.

  • His actions were rooted in love. Even when correcting or rebuking, He did so with compassion.
  • He lived in obedience to God’s will. He didn’t act based on emotions or convenience but in alignment with divine purpose**e.
  • He remained consistent in His character. Whether in times of celebration or suffering, His behaviour reflected the same grace and truth.

As followers of Christ, we are called to mirror this intentionality. Our actions should not be driven by habit alone but by a deep desire to glorify God in all we do.

Identity First, Behaviour Second

There’s a common belief that behaviour shapes identity. For example, someone who wants to be fit and healthy may start exercising regularly, and over time, their actions reinforce their identity as a disciplined and health-conscious person.

However, from a Christian perspective, transformation begins the other way around—from the inside out. Instead of merely adjusting our behaviour to fit a new identity, we need to allow God to transform our hearts, and from that transformation, our behaviour naturally changes and with long lasting effect showing a deep transformation.

Romans 12:2 reminds us, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” Our identity in Christ—being children of God, redeemed and made new—should be the foundation from which our actions flow. Rather than striving to behave in a certain way to become more Christian, we let God work within us, and our behaviours begin to reflect His love, grace, and righteousness.

A Challenge to Reflect

Perhaps the challenge for us today is not just to examine what we do but to ask ourselves why we do it.

  • Do our behaviours bring us closer to God, or do they distract us?
  • Are we living in a way that allows others to see Christ through us?
  • Do our habits reflect intentional choices, or are they just mindless routines?

Let us strive to live with purpose, allowing our actions to shine as a testimony of God’s love and grace. May we be intentional in our0 choices, mindful of our habits, and always seeking to glorify God in everything we do.